I am currently writing a book called "Belonging to the tribe" which explores why we are all so keen to be loved by the tribe and how deeply hurt we become if we are rejected. We seek affirmation that we are approved of and hate to be considered of little value.
It turns out that our desire to be loved by the tribe is the motive force behind great swaths of daily life . To see this can open up the awareness that we can move on from this need and become the ME that I want to be.
This book will be published in 2021. I hope to bring to this page regular update and excerpts from the book as it emerges.